Saying you live on because of your kids is a lie, right??

Isn't that just made-up nonsense?
It's nonsense to say that you want a divorce but are suffering and going crazy while enduring it just because of the kids, right??
You can get a divorce even if you have kids,
and besides, if they were in that kind of situation to begin with, there's no way they would have had a child.
They would have been extremely cautious and calculated everything before having a child.