Honestly, lately I've been finding Korean women's feminism and double standards absolutely disgusting.

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One thing I can understand is this:
"Don't spend money on men; spend that money on yourself to manage your appearance and get prettier, then men will naturally pay for you."
I can actually get that part lol
To be honest, no matter how much people say online, "Don't be a 'pongpong' husband," "Don't be a sucker," or "It's all just plastic surgery and procedures,"
when you look at reality,
women who get procedures, dress well, stay trendy, and are pretty are much more popular than women who are frugal, resourceful, and plain.
Honestly, it would be perfect if they could be both, but just as "rich, handsome, yet nerd-like men" almost don't exist in reality, people who are both are rare.
Men's demand itself is heavily skewed toward women who are trendy, well-groomed, and invest a lot in themselves, rather than those who are steady and plain.