Just don't get married

You're doing fine on your own?
Then don't get married.
Don't do it just because you're being pressured by what others think.
Why on earth would you try to increase your life's difficulty level?
Just look around; single men in their 40s live much more comfortably regardless of their income level because they have no family to be responsible for. They also navigate social life without worrying about what others think..