What benefits do men in their 40s receive from the state?

Come to think of it...
We work the most
We pay the most taxes
But we get zero benefits
(None of the youth policies, women's policies, or senior policies apply)
We have to raise kids, we have to care for parents
Commuting by the stars in the morning and by the stars at night, repeated 100 times
We get mocked as "Young Forty"
We didn't serve in the military for a short term like now; we served for a long time. I feel like we've fulfilled the four basic duties of a citizen the most.
Even though we are the backbone of the nation, it feels like we are treated like the least important.
It feels like we are the most pitiful...
Including myself T_T