How people on communities try to make marriage look bad

It seems like they are trying to turn the idea that marriage is "not worth it" into some kind of major issue.
I can't really do it anyway, so I'm not particularly moved by it,
and I don't feel the need to be on high alert either,
but I think it's quite unpleasant how they create all sorts of fictional stories just to spark debates.
Most people already just ignore 90% of the fiction found in these communities.