Wow, an older brother I know is drinking hard because of his wife

Even this Chuseok, he said he was the only one who went to his parents' house.
It's been a while since his wife started only visiting her own parents during the holidays.
The reason she doesn't want to go to her in-laws' is because she hates being lectured by the elders.
The repertoire of things his wife says every day is like:
"I didn't marry you just to go to your parents' house every holiday."
"I didn't marry you just to cook and do laundry for you."
"I didn't marry you just to bear your children."
"Don't expect anything from me and just take care of your own life."
"I don't care what you or your family do."
Since she's always saying this kind of stuff, they've had a lot of fights.
I met him again this afternoon and we had a drink together.
He isn't thinking about divorce yet.
But it's just so sad to see how difficult his married life seems to be.