I wish women would stop saying things like "I don't care about a man's looks"

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Not just celebrities, but quite a few ordinary people also say, "I don't care about a man's looks."
I don't know if that's just "playing the nice girl" to gain popularity or if they truly mean it.
I just wish they would be honest.
To those people, if I said other conditions are fine, but...

• He is an obvious ugly man
• He has severe hair loss and is practically bald
• He is a man under 165cm
• A foreign worker seen at a factory (this isn't racism, just an example)
  How would they react if I tried to set them up with a man like that? Saying something like, "You said you don't care about looks, and his other qualities are great."
  Would they actually accept it readily? I feel like they'd cut ties with me lol
  Just be honest and say:
  'He doesn't need to be exceptionally good-looking'
  'He doesn't need to be a 180cm hunk, just over 175cm and a decent-looking guy is fine'
  Even saying something like that wouldn't get you criticized these days. It's an open secret that women care a lot about men's looks lately.
  But saying "I don't care about looks" is just nonsense.
  Similarly, men in their 50s and older often give advice to men in their 20s and 30s like:
  'Confidence is everything for a man'
  'No woman is impossible to win over if you try ten times'
  They should stop saying these things too.
  Those words only work if the man has the basics covered... and these days, if you try ten times like that, you might turn a friendly relationship into a hostile one, or in extreme cases, you'll end up at the police station or even in jail. Seriously..
  To those men in their 50s and older who say such things: if a man with those physical conditions (the ones listed above) approached your own daughter (of course, being polite and kind),
  Would you say, "Oh, he's so confident and really likes my daughter"? In reality, it feels like you'd be trying to report him lol.