What is your sequence for using a bidet?

If you use the bidet immediately after pooping, it tends to splash a bit.
So, I usually wipe once with toilet paper first and then use the bidet.
I was surprised when a friend told me they use the bidet first and then wipe with toilet paper.
After pooping:
1. Wipe with paper then use bidet -> dry or paper
2. No paper, use bidet -> dry or paper
What is everyone's usage pattern?