Our household is one where the son is raised tough and the daughter is coddled.

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Since he was a young boy, because he is a son, he was raised with fists and kicks..
Since middle school, he handed out flyers and earned most of his own pocket money.
Since then, he has handled everything himself: university tuition, wedding costs, and buying his own home.
The daughter receives plenty of allowance and is coddled.
Her parents supported her with everything: university tuition, startup costs, wedding costs, and buying her home.
Even after that, the daughter keeps whining about how hard life is and asking for things..
The parents even rented a studio apartment near her place and travel up every week to babysit.
They have already done too much for the daughter, and the parents' own retirement is now in a difficult situation.
Yet, when it comes to handling family affairs, acting as a hospital driver, going on trips, or weekend outings, it is always the son who does it.
It may not be common, but families like this do exist.
Even "daughter fools" (parents obsessed with their daughters) need to know when to stop.