It seems a woman's life is heavily influenced by the man she meets

‌I have many female classmates from high school.
When I stay in touch through alumni associations and check in on how they are doing,
there are certainly cases where they live well through their own abilities (doctors, business owners, etc.).
But looking at how they live, it seems that for most, their reality is ultimately determined by what kind of man they meet.
There are cases where their looks or specs weren't that great, but they live well because they met a good man.
This probably applies to men as well, but it seems even more pronounced for women.
I think there is a good reason why women are so selective about the men they meet during their marriageable years.
Because their lives after marriage are heavily influenced by their partner for a lifetime.
If you are a parent with a daughter,
you should always watch the men she meets very carefully.
Because your daughter needs to be happy.