The reason people in 2030 aren't or can't date is due to polarization

Paradoxically, the idea that "anyone can date" has turned into "not just anyone can date."
The paradox of competition
According to market logic, if people date frequently, they should meet others of similar value, but human psychology doesn't work that way.
First, because men and women are different, a man might date someone rated a 4 or a 10 depending on the situation, but in a free dating environment, women tend to only meet those above their own value.
This is female instinct, so if you let it run free, it's inevitable.
In the past, social pressure would have made people compromise and adjust to one another, but now, men must cater entirely to a woman's standards and tastes.
Furthermore, if a woman meets a man ranked higher than herself, she considers that her "tier" and won't meet anyone below that level at all.
In addition, there is a social atmosphere where a man's confession or advances can be linked to sexual harassment or stalking, plus female-dominated communities that turn what used to be called "courageous confessions" into subjects of ridicule and lifelong public mockery.
It is a continuous vicious cycle.
Men of a similar or lower tier find it difficult to date even if they make a move, and even if they do, there is the fear that the cost might be becoming a "pong-pong" (a provider exploited by a partner).
The leftist feminist strategy was to dismantle the family and leave only individuals and the party, but even they wouldn't have pursued feminism if they knew the country would fall into the abyss of low birth rates lol