Life and death: Is it all destiny or not?

I believe everything is destiny.
I don't look down on people who die from drinking too much.
Because they died because it was their destiny to do so.
Even if they didn't drink, that person would have died on that day at that time.
That is destiny.
Destiny cannot be changed, not even the small things.
For example, eating ramen today is also destiny; sleeping or using the bathroom is also destiny. Everything is destiny, so it cannot be changed.
Even deciding not to eat ramen today to defy destiny is also destiny. Deciding not to sleep or not to use the bathroom is also destiny to do so.
Saying that one has changed their destiny is nothing more than an arrogant delusion of one's own.
If I were to have a family later and found out that my parents and children were destined to die by gunshot, I wouldn't tell them.
Because even if I told them, it is their destiny to die by gunshot anyway.
Not telling them is for their sake.
At least they can spend today smiling and die without being anxious.
If a criminal went back to the past, would they not commit the crime?
No, they would still commit it. Even if they had the ability to see the future, they would still do it.
Because it is their destiny to do so.
If they didn't, then they didn't go to the past, but to a parallel universe.
It is the same whether you go back to the past 1,000, 10,000, or 100,000,000 times.
In conclusion, since we are all slaves and puppets of destiny,
let us not try to fight destiny, but rather accept it.
Even if it feels like you might get stabbed today, don't stay home; go out, face it with dignity, and accept the destiny of dying.
Even if it is your destiny to die from drinking, just accept it and let's not drink.
Whether you eat ramen today or eat a 3-star Michelin meal, it is all destiny.
No destiny can be changed, and unless we are reborn, there is nothing we can change.
The more you try to change it, the deeper you fall into helplessness, so just give up. That is the right way.