Why people dislike military service and perceive it as a punishment

The state also bears responsibility.
If military service were truly such a sacred duty and a source of pride, they should have provided sufficient compensation and protected the honor that comes with fulfilling that duty.
In reality, they even abolished the meager military service bonus points under the guise of preventing gender discrimination, and on top of that, they even blocked the recognition of service years for career seniority.
I heard that in the United States, everyone shows respect to soldiers and even willingly gives up first-class airplane seats to them.
We are a country where even a single cup of Starbucks coffee for soldiers causes feminists to foam at the mouth, and where the state remains silent even when feminists pick fights over soldiers taking seats on the subway..