Why there are so many suckers in fraudulent marriages and mistreated husbands

You became a worker at a major corporation, a professional, or a civil servant. And suddenly, a decent woman comes to you?
Look, back when I was a student, in my 20s,
a woman who wouldn't have even glanced at a man like me then comes to me after she's turned thirty.
Then, isn't it strange? It's right to think, "Wait, this is a bit weird, isn't it?"
Is it possible that a woman, who is more likely to have come for my status rather than truly liking me,
will truly love me?
Do you think I, who have no dating experience, can understand a woman's heart 100%? Human thoughts, emotions, and hearts are not multiple-choice questions.
If a decent woman didn't come to you when you were a student, it will be even harder as you get older. It is realistic to abandon romantic illusions. What doesn't work, doesn't work.
A person's personality and habits do not change easily, and their emotional senses also rarely change. They just become duller or can be hidden as they age.
It is better to simply fulfill your duties as a husband and a father, show appropriate politeness to your in-laws,
and not give your heart or affection at all.