There is no need to live life making such a fuss

Living life
Everyone has their own standards and their own sense of satisfaction, but by constantly trying to meet other people's standards instead of my own, I feel like I am just tormenting myself.
Whether it is a studio or a two-room apartment, I don't care as long as I have a home to return to.
But according to others' standards, I feel like I must live in a standard Seoul apartment, drive a Tesla, and travel abroad at least once a year.
I feel like I have to wear certain brands of clothing or
carry certain bags, and while trying to fit myself into standards set by someone else,
I find myself waiting in line for desserts that don't even suit my taste, making me wonder if I am truly living my life correctly.
I should be finding what I personally enjoy instead of making such a fuss, but now I don't even know what I truly like, and I am searching for my identity among things that merely look good to others.
In the end, I see myself living in a standard apartment, driving a Tesla, and waiting in front of a dessert cafe on the weekend.
It feels both pathetic and pitiful.