It's clear that as a woman's looks rise above average, her "menhera" (emotional instability) levels skyrocket

After becoming single, I absolutely refused to use a matchmaking agency, so I tried everything—blind dates, solo bars, guesthouse parties, picking up girls on the street, etc. After all that effort, I finally met a girlfriend in her mid-20s who is 8 years younger than me, and we've even set a wedding date for next year. But through this period of extreme effort, I've realized something...
It feels like for women whose looks are above average (roughly the top 30% or higher), which is what most men want to meet, their "menhera" levels increase linearly every time their attractiveness level goes up ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ The extremely rare girls who are both beautiful and have great personalities tend to marry the ones they met in college by their late 20s. As for women in the marriageable age range (27 to 32) who are good-looking and have decent or stable jobs, being sensitive is basically a given. The better they look, the more sensitive they get; you can literally feel them scanning you like an interviewer the moment you meet.
No matter how pretty they are, there have been many times I gave up halfway through, thinking, "I'd rather live alone than spend my whole life dealing with this kind of emotional instability due to my libido..." Of course, I've been rejected quite a few times too..ㅋㅋㅋ My current girlfriend has average looks, is tall, has a decent personality, and is very considerate, which is why we started dating. I love the sense of stability she provides.