Two things to keep in mind when dealing with women
Writing a random post because I'm sleepy
Since I grew up in female-dominated environments from a young age, I have quite a bit of experience with women.
Not just in dating, but my studying and working environments have all been female-dominated, to the point where I actually feel more comfortable around women than men.
It's a shame that many men don't know what women prioritize.
This isn't just about a romantic partner; it's a key point for getting along with family members like mothers or younger sisters as well.
So, don't say, "I'd rather stay single than deal with that."
There are two points that women consider important, but due to time, I will only write about one.
That one is "mood" (feeling).
This "mood" is incredibly important to women.
It wouldn't be an exaggeration to say that women are made of "mood."
Once you understand that "mood" is important to a woman, everything derived from it falls into place like dominoes.
Mood is the "present" moment.
A small joy in the present is greater than a larger joy in the distant future.
The frequency of feeling good is more important than the intensity of the feeling.
Even past happy events are re-evaluated based on the current mood.
Even if the current mood is good, one can become sad due to anxiety about the distant future.
Mood is an expression of consciousness and emotion.
Of course, not all women are always like this.
Because humans are not that simple.
However, the tendency is stronger compared to men.
This is the best way to show the difference between men and women.
Man: "I feel bad about this, but what you're saying isn't wrong."
Woman: "What you're saying isn't wrong, but it makes me feel bad."
This isn't about being right or wrong. It's just different.
Some people might say they hate how "self-centered" women are like that.
That's understandable.
But what can you do if that is what women prioritize?
It's just that the values they consider important are different.
You don't need to understand this. It's not something you even can understand.
You just have to "acknowledge" it.
A woman is a being filled with the water called "mood."
If the mood is good, they do difficult tasks joyfully.
If the mood is bad, even easy tasks become annoying.
If they are in a good place, they feel good.
If they are in a bad place, they feel bad.
They are easily colored by the external environment.
It doesn't cost money to make a woman feel good.
Thinking that women only like men who are tall, handsome, and wealthy
is like thinking all children in the world will be happy if you just buy them one expensive toy.
What they truly desire is "spending physical time together" and "attention."
It's the same for children as it is for women.
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