Venerable Pomnyun's answers seem to follow a very fixed pattern....

While there are many answers that are relatable or mind-blowing,
if you summarize his responses, they eventually boil down to:
You are alone in this world. Everything is ultimately just temporary.
Stop worrying about things you cannot control.
If you are a mature adult, your husband, parents, children, and siblings will live their own lives, so do not expect anything from them and be okay even if you never see them again for the rest of your life.
Ultimately, his answers always seem to follow this pattern...
Of course, what he says is true... but it feels too theoretical, and I feel like only those who have attained great enlightenment can actually practice it.
It seems he emphasizes the fact that life is desperately lonely too much.